The first time I experienced a Family Constellation, I had no idea what I was getting into! Like most things I have found to really resonate on a deep soul level, I trusted my inner knowing. It is actually quite common to have this experience. When you are ready the right modality appears and begins to make itself known. I am so glad I listened.
I have completely lost count of the times clients have said to me, " I don't know anything about this, but I am just drawn to it for some reason." Things resonate with us for a reason.
How the process works:
You (as the client/seeker) bring an issue forth that you feel is not working well in your life; something you are seeking resolution with. There are no limits to that which you can offer up for resolution. Sometimes it helps to talk it through, and I am here for that.
If it is your first time to have a Family Constellation worked, we often begin with your family of origin. After all, life comes down to relationship, and we are formed (conditioned) by our very first relationships-- our parents. It is astounding how our unconscious records and holds things in the form of patterns --ultimately, in order to get our attention, so we can restore order and bring back the flow of love. And so much of what we carry and hold onto within our cellular memory goes even beyond ourown life and down the family line beyond our conscious awareness... before our time and even before our parents time. And, thankfully, it is nothing we have to figure out.
There is a process that unfolds during the constellation that allows acknowledgement, healing, and acceptance of what is that creates shifts within the quantum field. It is hard to quantify the ripple effects created throughout our life and our lineage as a result. The goal is to restore any blocks we might have to the flow love that might have been created (perhaps hundreds and even thousands of years ago) so that we can be more fully present to our lives, right here and now.
There is a (Turkish) Netflix series that beautifully captures and illustrates this phenomenon. It is called "Another Self." I highly recommend it.
There is definitely something incredibly powerful (and even relieving) about having a visual/ tangible way of seeing, witnessing, and feeling these patterns we may be playing out on such a subtle (or not so subtle) level. We may have some notion of what is going on, but the process of witnessing your family constellation before your very eyes that brings a most unexpected liberation. The process is often full of "aha's", profound insights and awarenesses, release of stress and tension that you may not have even know was connected to the past, and most importantly more flow in your life.